When John says that “perfect love casts out fear,” what kind of fear is he talking about? I don’t imagine, a person knowing they are loved, would make jumping out of an airplane or public speaking less frightening. I do not think physical fear is what John had in mind. Physical fear is not easy to overcome, but it can be overcome with a little courage. Courage is not action absent of fear, but action despite fear.
Then what is John talking about? John tells us when we read the whole passage, “This is how love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment… There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment.” (1 John 4:17-18) John is talking about fear of judgment!
Over the weekend Maddie made a very astute observation, “The root of our fear is doubt… Doubt makes us scared. Doubt makes us skeptical. Doubt makes us want to run away, to get out from whatever seems to be the problem.” Think about this statement for a minute. How many of us after a mistake become skeptical and run further away from God? Like the prodigal son we become slaves in a foreign land rather than go home because we doubt God’s love for us. We say things like, “if you only knew what I did” or “I don’t want to return until I get my act right;” that is fear talking. If we doubt God’s love for us, then of course we will fear judgment and punishment. How could someone who does not love us have mercy on us?
But reader, although you have heard it many times before, let me say it to you one more time: God loves you. God’s love for you is patient, kind, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs, it protects, it always perseveres and it never fails! (1 Cor 13:4-8) This kind of love is searching to be reconciled, not to punish! If you still question it, look to the cross. There Jesus will reveal to you God as savior. For the cross is not what God inflicts upon Jesus in order to forgive. The cross is what God in Christ endures as He forgives. The cross did not make God willing to forgive, it is evidence that He was always willing to forgive. It is this love that moved Paul to write, “In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace.” (Eph 1:7) In other words, God wants to forgive!
When we realize how deeply loved we are, we rest knowing that our mistakes are not greater than His love, and that no imperfection of ours is above or beyond the healing hand of the Great I AM. When we know we are deeply loved, we do not fear judgment. My prayer for you is that you may know that you are perfectly loved by God. And in knowing this, that all your fear of judgment may be cast out.
–Pastor Alex Portillo